meet our team

Lloyd Vliet

Co-founder, Chairman of the Board, & Executive Director

Lloyd Vliet, a marketing professional, has been leading Gay Social since its inception in February 2022. As a co-founder, Lloyd’s vision and dedication have been instrumental in driving the organization forward, fostering a vibrant and inclusive community.

Keith Landon

Secretary & Treasurer

Keith Landon, who joined our board in 2024, plays a crucial role in keeping Gay Social organized and efficient. A well-known advocate in the gay community in Somerset County, Keith’s dedication ensures our operations run smoothly, benefiting the entire organization.

Julio SIlva

Social Media Manager

Julio Silva, who joins Gay Social as Social Media Manager in 2025, is a digital storyteller passionate about community building and LGBTQ+ representation. With a background in fashion marketing and social media strategy, Julio uses creativity and data-driven insights to amplify voices, foster connection, and grow vibrant online communities.

Rocky Rinaldi

Morris County Community Manager

Rocky Rinaldi, a seasoned event host and DJ, joins Gay Social as Community Manager in 2025. With 10 years of experience creating pop culture events, Rocky is passionate about using technology and entertainment to foster authentic connections. As a single dad and community advocate, he is dedicated to fostering inclusivity and building meaningful connections.

Melissa Firstenberg

Burlington County Community Manager

Growing up in central Jersey (which does exist), Melissa moved to Marlton in south Jersey after college in Philadelphia. At work, Melissa is a trusted industrial cybersecurity leader. When not at work, Melissa is a passionate advocate and activist for the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to her volunteer roles, Melissa works to establish opportunities for social inclusion for the LGBTQ+ community in the Jersey burbs of Philly.

Pat Coyle

Co-founder, Board Member, & Director of Partnerships

Pat Coyle has been an integral part of Gay Social since its inception in February 2022. Serving as the Director of Partnerships, Pat leverages his extensive connections within the LGBTQ+ community to support and advance our mission.

Andrew Casano

Board Member & Director of Events

Andrew Casano, a prominent figure in the gay community in Hunterdon County, joined our board in 2024. Serving as a Board Member and Director of Events, Andrew’s efforts are essential in creating and managing the events that bring our community together.

Rashad M. Davis

Advisor to the Board & Mercer County Community Manager

Rashad M. Davis joins Gay Social as a board advisor in 2025, bringing his passion for community building and connection. An illustrator, author, educator, and business owner, Rashad’s work focuses on equity and justice. His expertise in fostering diverse, empowering spaces strengthens Gay Social’s mission, and he’s excited to help grow and enrich our vibrant community.

Brad Scott

Warren County Community Manager

Brad Scott joins Gay Social as Community Manager for Warren County in 2025. Known for his creativity, energy, and passion for building community, Brad brings people together both through events and his work as a DJ. He co-hosts Gay Social’s popular Drag Bingo with CarolAnn CarolAnn and is excited to continue creating spaces where connection, laughter, and belonging thrive.

Jonathan Cisek

Vice President of the Board

Jonathan Cisek, a respected leader in the LGBTQ+ community in Somerset County, joined our board in January 2024. As Vice President, Jon brings his passion and commitment to supporting our mission and strengthening our community.

Matt Kersey

Board Member & Director of Communications

Matt Kersey, a professional graphic designer and seasoned event organizer, joins Gay Social’s board in 2025. With years of experience hosting Pride Night, Matt is passionate about creating events that foster meaningful connections and bring people together in lasting and impactful ways.

Gerry Agyeman

Advisor to the Board

Gerry Agyeman, a passionate educator and entrepreneur, joins Gay Social’s advisory board in 2025. Known for his creativity and community spirit, Gerry brings a deep commitment to meaningful connection and personal growth through shared experiences and thoughtful conversation.

Jerry Schmidt

Warren County Community Manager

Jerry Schmidt, also known as CarolAnn CarolAnn, joins Gay Social as Community Manager for Warren County in 2025. With a background as an actor, playwright, small business owner, drag performer, and longtime bartender, Jerry brings a mix of humor, heart, and creativity to the team. He’s passionate about building spaces where everyone feels welcome, connected, and free to be themselves.