upcoming lgbtq+ events in new jersey
Welcome to Gay Social’s calendar of upcoming LGBTQ+ events across New Jersey. We host in-person social gatherings that make it easier to meet people and build community close to home. From coffee meetups and happy hours to book clubs and seasonal socials, our events are designed for conversation, connection, and a welcoming atmosphere.
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new to the community?
New to Gay Social? Many people attend on their own. Every event is hosted by a Community Manager who welcomes attendees and helps make introductions.
spritz & soiréeMULTIPLE DATESJan 28, 2026, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PMAperitivo Bar, 25 NJ-31, Pennington, NJ 08534, USA
spotlight socialMULTIPLE DATESJan 30, 2026, 8:00 PM – 11:59 PMThe 244 Spot, 244 Cedar St, South Amboy, NJ 08879, USA
reading between the linesMULTIPLE DATESFeb 01, 2026, 6:00 PM – 8:00 PMHowling Basset Books, 45 North Main Street (Entrance on, Coryell St, Lambertville, NJ 08530, USA
pride night outMULTIPLE DATESFeb 03, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMMoonshine Modern Supper Club, 55 Main St, Millburn, NJ 07041, USA
mix & mingleMULTIPLE DATESFeb 04, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMClydz, 55 Paterson St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901, USA
pickle outFeb 07, 2026, 2:00 PM – 5:00 PMSPORTTIME Pickleball Wayne, 77 Willowbrook Blvd, Wayne, NJ 07470, USA
coffee socialMULTIPLE DATESFeb 08, 2026, 11:00 AM – 2:00 PMScout's Coffee Bar, 11 Main St, High Bridge, NJ 08829, USA
java & jazzMULTIPLE DATESFeb 15, 2026, 11:00 AM – 1:00 PMThe Coffee Box, 1465 Irving St, Rahway, NJ 07065, USA
pub & pourMULTIPLE DATESFeb 18, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMProject P.U.B. , 41 N Bridge St, Somerville, NJ 08876, USA
MPAC pride night | Jessica KirsonFeb 19, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMMayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St, Morristown, NJ 07960, USA
bowling nightFeb 28, 2026, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PMLodi Lanes, 58 Terhune Ave, Lodi, NJ 07644, USA- pride night outMULTIPLE DATESMar 03, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMMoonshine Modern Supper Club, 55 Main St, Millburn, NJ 07041, USA
- mix & mingleMULTIPLE DATESMar 04, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMClydz, 55 Paterson St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901, USA
neat connectionsMULTIPLE DATESMar 06, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMThe Laundromat, 4 Dehart St, Morristown, NJ 07960, USA- coffee socialMULTIPLE DATESMar 08, 2026, 11:00 AM – 2:00 PMScout's Coffee Bar, 11 Main St, High Bridge, NJ 08829, USA
- st patty's spotlight socialMULTIPLE DATESMar 13, 2026, 8:00 PM – 11:59 PMThe 244 Spot, 244 Cedar St, South Amboy, NJ 08879, USA
- reading between the linesMULTIPLE DATESMar 15, 2026, 6:00 PM – 8:00 PMHowling Basset Books, 45 North Main Street (Entrance on, Coryell St, Lambertville, NJ 08530, USA
3rd cup saturdayMULTIPLE DATESMar 21, 2026, 2:00 PM – 4:00 PMSugar Tree Cafe, 358 Passaic Ave, Nutley, NJ 07110, USA- spritz & soiréeMULTIPLE DATESMar 25, 2026, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PMAperitivo Bar, 25 NJ-31, Pennington, NJ 08534, USA
- mix & mingleMULTIPLE DATESApr 01, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMClydz, 55 Paterson St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901, USA
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frequently asked questions
do i need a membership?
Nope! There's no membership. Our events are open to everyone.
do i need to rsvp to an event?
Sometimes. Many events are drop-in, but if an event needs a headcount, we’ll include it in the event details.
what if i don't know anyone?
No problem! Every event has a designated Community Manager to welcome you, make introductions, and help you feel at home.
can I come alone?
Absolutely. Many people do. You’ll never be left on your own.
is there an age requirement?
Our events are for adults. Some have age restrictions if alcohol is being served, and we’ll always list those details on the event page.
our event venue sponsors
We wouldn’t be able to bring the community together without the support of the amazing venues that open their doors to us. From coffee shops and bars to studios and bookstores, these partners give us the space to connect, share, and grow together.
new to our events?
We get it. Showing up to something new can feel a little intimidating, whether you’re an extrovert or an introvert. That’s why every event has a dedicated Community Manager ready to greet you, make introductions, and help you feel at home. Lots of people come on their own, and most leave with new friends.
